Signs Youre Not Ready For A Relationship

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Posted on: 19th Oct 2016

Many people are so busy focusing on finding someone to be in a relationship with that they miss the fact that they�re not actually ready to be involved with anyone right then. It may seem that anyone would realize that they don�t really want to be involved with someone, but that�s not always true. There may, instead, be a craving of sorts to have someone in your life and someone that you can share things with. That�s not, however, the same thing as being ready to be in a relationship.

One sign that you�re not ready for a relationship is in the guys that you keep being drawn to. Time after time, the guy you�re attracted to is in no way the one that you need to be with. Even though you�re warned that he�s a huge player or a loser, it doesn�t stop you from latching onto him. It also doesn�t take very long to realize that you�ve made a big mistake.

If you must have a man in your life in order to feel happy, that�s another sign that you�re not ready to be involved in a relationship. When you�re invited to a social event, unless you have a date to escort you, it�s likely that you�ll make up an excuse to not attend. This is never a good reason to jump into a relationship. You need to learn how to be happy with yourself first.

Some women feel they�re saviors and will look for a guy that can be their project. What this translates to is that they need drama in their lives so they find someone that�s so dysfunctional that it will keep them quite occupied in saving him. Being a therapist isn�t the same thing as being a girlfriend.

On the flip side of that, you want someone to save you. If you�re constantly talking about what a mess your life is in, you need to fix all of that before you�re ready for a real relationship. What you�ll most likely do is attract a man with all of your same issues so that neither of you can get better.

You feel you need a man to �complete� you. While this sounds great in a movie or in a book, reality is a bit different. There should be no completing. In fact, you might consider looking for a guy that will complement you. That makes you look a lot less needy.

If you�re spending more time looking for love than enjoying the interests you have, you�re not ready to be in a relationship. Granted, you do need to be out there in social situations if you ever plan to meet the right guy, but don�t plan all of your outings around The Hunt. It�s not normal.

Deal with any leftover emotional baggage that you may have before jumping into a new relationship. That�s also known as the rebound effect and is rarely successful. Another man isn�t necessarily going to take your mind off of your ex.

Last, but not least, if you feel you can�t be yourself around a new man, then keep looking. There�s no need to turn yourself inside out to make sure you�re exactly what he wants. Be more concerned about whether or not he�s what you want, instead.

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