Believe in Yourself When Others Try to Destroy You (Here�s How)

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Posted on: 2nd Nov 2014

Do successful people have to deal with the viciousness, deceit, and outright cruelty of others? Absolutely! There is no one alive who hasn�t felt injured and betrayed by those whom they once trusted and admired. In fact, it is likely that you are still licking the deep emotional wounds that have not only compromised your bliss, but also your belief in yourself. In spite of this, you must believe in yourself nonstop, and destroy any notion that you are unworthy of the better things in life; even if others constantly insist on burdening you with such a falsehood. Here are a few ideas that you may wish to embrace in order to help you view yourself with the highest degree of respect.

Honor You
It�s your life, so why not honor it. This is particularly important, because very few people will ever treat you as anyone special. So, treat yourself as an important figure. Get a manicure and pedicure. Get an occasional back rub, and facial treatment. Make a point of being the best-treated you on the planet.

Avoid Defending Yourself Unnecessarily
The worst thing you can do is to unnecessarily defend yourself or your position. Obviously, you need to defend yourself at times. However, it is useless to constantly be on guard each time you feel tested. The best thing to do under such circumstances is to tell the individual(s) in question to get lost, and then calmly walk away. Remember, you know yourself well enough to not have to defend yourself. Period!

Kick the Naysayers to the Curb
When you cross paths with those who don�t respect you, believe in you, or take you seriously; kick them to the curb immediately. You only want to associate with those who will more than likely stick by you regardless of your situation. If they�re not with you, get away from them. You don�t need to have them around if their only objective is to undermine you. So, reject the naysayers.

Become Your Own Theorist
Develop your own personal philosophy for your life. Know who you are and why you deserve the best that the world has to offer. Your philosophy of life must always be to build your strengths and add to your happiness. Develop your own theories regarding such matters as forgiveness, power, love, intimacy, and so forth. The more you create ideas that you believe in, the more you will believe in yourself.

Do Like the Humanitarians
Humanitarians are always doing something that brings them public recognition, appreciation, and respect. They are raising money for UNICEF, giving away turkeys to struggling families for Thanksgivings, doing fundraising for cancer cures, and a host of other benefits. Consider doing likewise. When you do for others, you end up doing for yourself, and will ultimately believe in yourself.

Conclusion
Believing in yourself is one of the highest and most important compliments that you must give yourself. This is especially true when others try to tear you down just for the thrill of it. So, always believe in yourself.

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