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How to be less shy and make friends?
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Posted on: 23rd Oct 2013
How to be less shy and make friends?
Friends make the world a little fuller. They make daily life easier to bear sometimes, because they can act as sounding boards, vent buddies, or just fun distractions from your own troubles. Plus, friends give you perspective. You may think you have it bad until you talk to a friend who has it much worse.
So, the question is: how do you make friends, especially if you are shy?
First, join activities in school, college, work. It doesn�t matter how old you are, there are activities available to you. Pick things you love, so you can meet people how have the same interests. For instance, then, you can join a pottery class and make friends who are fans of Do It Yourself projects. Or, you can join the drama club and discover a community, a group of friends, who love film and theater.
Next, try to talk to people. I know, it is so hard for someone shy. But, this is why Wiki How explains,
�Become more socially involved with people. Get out of your comfort zone and learn how to not only make friends, but also keep and talk to them!Even if it's about the silliest things that come into your mind, conversations matter. It also means that you are securing your relationship with that person. You might be shy but that doesn't mean you don't have any friends. Don't stick with one group of friends. Talk to everyone, hangout with different people everyday. This will be a fun experience for you!�
And I have to agree with this statement, from my experiences. Becoming a social butterfly has its perks and one of those perks is knowing different people, who enrich different aspects of your life.
If you want to make friends, you need to genuinely try. Wiki How adds,
�Make an effort. People like others if they are the ones that make an excellent effort to talk to them and put themselves out there. Don't be the person who sits alone, waiting for someone to come talk to them. Start sitting with other people and in small groups. You may make a friend or two in there.�
Try to talk to people, try to socialize, make small talk. Try to join in on conversations in class or at work.
But the key in all of this is to have a positive sense of self. Try to talk positively to yourself. Try to see yourself in a positive light. Know that you are worthy of friendships and love. It sounds easy, but it is actually extremely difficult. Love yourself first, and friends will come flocking to you. Wiki How writes,
�Boost your confidence with a pep talk every morning. Look at yourself in the mirror and list all the positive things about your personality. If it helps, write yourself an encouraging note to look at every morning - paste it on your mirror!�
And finally, be open to be loved.
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