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Develop A Positive Self-Esteem
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Be determined to prove your worth and become an achiever of your desired goals in life. Do not allow a low self-esteem and lack of hope to disrupt your ability to cope with the struggles and challenges of life. When you allow doubt to grow then hope and the ability to cope are diminished. The way you think can determine what you are about and how you interact with others.

Whatever are examples of low esteem aspects in your mind need to be improved upon, such as:   

1. Nothing you do seems to go right

2. You believe that most people do not like you.

3. You believe that you are not attractive.

4. You choose something and it turns out to be the worst one.

5. You are afraid to converse with others for fear that what you say might not make sense.

6. You feel swallowed up in a whirlpool of frustration.

What is wrong with you in these instances are actually your own thoughts.

Stop thinking that the world is closing in on you. Be determined to achieve what you desire. Stop blaming other people for your misfortunes. The world is not your problem; you are your own problem. You can become your own worst enemy by how you choose to think of yourself.

Going forward from this moment onward, begin the process to improve your self-esteem. Think the right way and be determined to win, and win you will. Just remember that success never comes easily and that is why determination is its counterpart.

Do not allow yourself to be counted among the ones who arrive at the brink of success and because of just a little disappointment or setback, they lose heart and give up too easily and too soon.  This is a surefire candidate of low self-esteem in need of improvement. Who knows what great things might have been achieved if only they had persevered.

Without a high self-esteem, your life could be rather boring. Change your thinking and begin to see yourself on top of the world. Make a very special effort to be what you really want to be.

You have to seriously decide either to remain in a miserable state of low assurance, or acquire faith in your capacity to develop a high self-esteem with good character and self-image.

The origin of a low self-esteem could begin way back in childhood when children are made to believe that they are worthless or had to endure mental and physical abuses. Their self-confidence is corrupted and eroded to a point that they succumb to the idea that they can never achieve success in anything that they do. They were picked on, laughed at, pushed around, called ugly names, and treated with disdain. No wonder they grew up to be full of resentment.

If that was your experience, it is time you cut loose from that mindset and do yourself a favor and begin self-esteem improvement. Start reading about the life of successful persons and you will soon discover that many of them had such low self-esteem origins that they could not even complete an elementary education.

Many decided to override their low self-esteem and improve their attitude, whatever it took. They became some of the greatest men and women that ever lived.

Low self-esteem has never helped anyone else and it sure will not help you. It can only drive you into mood swings, depression, anger, long held grudges, fear and all the other evils that it generates.

Re-program your thinking and control your state of mind. You must believe that you are worth much more than you think or you will remain at the foot of the ladder and never make an attempt to climb it.

Do not waste your life away with feeling inadequate and inapt. Instead, think of ways to go about self- esteem improvement to feeling adequate and apt. Success is yours, just reach out and grasp it.
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