
It is through good listening that you are able to get a grasp on the people's inner and outer world. Listening skills play a crucial role in building quality relationships with others.
So when you speak, you are better equipped to have a strong impact on them and see good results.
Considering this, I�d like to show you some tips to becoming a good listener with better result:
1. Widen the range of things you do.
Many times we have problems paying attention to what someone says because we have no experience in that area and so it doesn�t resonate with us. If someone talks about their travelling experiences and you barely did any travelling, there is little common ground so you might have a hard time paying attention.
The people with the worst listening skills are typically the ones who don�t have much of a life. Because they have not developed their interests so there are few conversation topics that appeal to them.
So, expand your horizons. Get some hobbies, try new things, and learn new things. As you do so your interests will expand and you�ll enjoy talking about a lot more topics. Because you resonate with them on a personal level.
2. Practice being present.
Being present means being attentive to the activity you�re doing at a certain point and to what�s going on around you. It�s about living the experience rather than being in your head, thinking about something else.
And this is something you can practice. When you find yourself in your head, wrapped in your thoughts rather than paying attention to what�s going on, deliberately shift your attention towards the activity. You can do this in a conversation situations as well.
As you practice, you�ll discover that you�ll get better during conversations at focusing on the other person�s words when they speak and listening to them. Because you are more used to being present.
3. Ask questions during conversation.
When you play an active role in a conversation, it makes you pay more attention to it. You can force yourself to play an active role, for example by deciding to ask the other person question while they are talking to navigate the conversation and get specific details.
Once you decided to ask questions, this compels you to actually listen to what the other person says, because that needs to be clear for you in order to ask suitable questions. It�s a great little technique to get yourself not only listening more, but also more engaged in the discussion.
By trying these methods, I�m sure you�ll see very good outcomes. They have been tested again and again in a variety of social situations and they work brilliantly well in improving how people interact with each other and it will surely work for you.
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