Every
guy out there has that dream girl that they see around town that they
really want to ask out, but they are afraid of being shot down. This
is something that guys throughout history have had to deal with at
one point or another.
Now, there are a lot of people that are going to tell you to just
suck it up and ask her out. They will go on and on about how you will
regret not asking her out when you are older and spend the rest of
your days wondering what she would have said.
For the most
part, these people are right. You should never live your life with
regrets and always try to accomplish the things that your heart tells
you it wants. However, sometimes there is no way of doing that and
you just have to learn to live with it. As far as that dream girl
goes, you need to consider whether or not you are the type of person
she would be comfortable being with before you attempt to ask her
out. This isn't going to be very easy for you, either, especially
since you are afraid to talk to her.
The first thing you are going
to have to do is figure out what kind of guy she likes. You can do
this in a number of ways, but the best way is to just ask her what
kinds of things she likes to do for fun. This will give you all the
information you need to know about her and you can figure out if you
are the guy that she is looking
for. It's fairly easy to start up a conversation with people
these days, and they don�t all have to revolve around the weather,
either.
The act of just coming out and starting a conversation
with her is going to show her that you have confidence in yourself.
This is a very good start for you since all women like a guy that is
self-confident. Just make sure you don�t make the conversation all
about you. Women hate it when a guy goes on and on about themselves,
and never lets them get a word in. Try to be open to listening to
what she has to say even if you don�t want to hear it as its
probably important information that will help you determine if she
likes you.
Talking to her may seem like an impossible thing for
you to accomplish, but she is no different than anyone else in the
world that you have actually started a conversation with. Just
because you think she is the most beautiful creature to ever walk the
planet doesn�t mean that she isn't human, after all. You just have
to adjust your thinking to the fact that she is just another person
standing in front of you and not some angel sent from heaven that you
have no chance of communicating with. Get over your fears and talk to
her because she might end up being with you for a very long time.
By Max Taylor