Radio
personality Rush Limbaugh has been in the news a lot over the years,
and recently he�s reared his ugly head again. His
entire premise in life seems to be just how disrespectful he can
be to women. It�s obvious that he dislikes them and looks down on
them because every time he opens his mouth, something vile against
women spews forth. In short, he gives men a really bad name.
Singer
Aretha Franklin had it right so many years ago when she sang
R-E-S-P-E-C-T. It became an anthem of sorts for women all over the
world in 1967. In the song, she sang about how she treated her man
right and deserved his respect in the relationship. Oddly enough,
this song was written by a man, none other than Otis Redding, who
also recorded it in 1965 on the album, Otis Blue. When you really
listen to the lyrics, you see that Otis may have truly understood how
important respect is in a relationship and he, unlike, Limbaugh,
gives men a GOOD name.
All
of the above is to preface the fact that, in a relationship, respect
for your partner is just as important as love. In fact, if you don�t
respect your partner, then you don�t actually love her or him.
That�s the sad truth. You can talk all you want about how much you
love the person you�re with, but if you aren�t showing any
respect for this person, you�re not in love. What you feel is more
like ownership or something.
To
have a successful relationship, respect
is a vital element. This includes respect for the privacy,
thoughts, opinions, feelings, and overall person that your partner
has and is. If you�re snooping around in his or her things such as
a journal or cell phone texts and phone calls, then you�re
disrespecting that person. Yes, things are different when you�re
part of a couple, but that doesn�t mean that both of you should
lose your identity and rights that you have individually. Typically,
in relationships, it�s only one person that loses these things to
the other partner. Usually, at least one of the partners understands
about respect.
Disrespect
for your partner can come from many things but, usually, it�s
something that you grew up seeing in your childhood home. If your own
parents didn�t respect each other, or one of them didn�t respect
the other one, you�re probably going to have some issues with that
yourself. Keep in mind that disrespect can cause the demise of a
relationship, so you may want to not revisit your past if that�s
what you were exposed to because it�s harmful and not
right.
Relationships
need a healthy dose of respect from both partners if it�s going to
succeed. Even those couples that stay together in spite of the lack
of respect can�t count themselves in successful relationships. They
stay together because they don�t really know what else to
do.
Disrespect
is hurtful and it kills love along with relationships. Someone should
pass that along to Rush Limbaugh.
By Max Taylor