Romance
is one of those things that guys like to show off on a special
occasion. Unfortunately, for most guys, the only occasion that they
actually pick to show how romantic they are is Valentine�s Day, and
all other men in the world are
doing the exact same thing. If you are really looking to move
forward in your relationship by showing your partner just how
romantic you can be, then you shouldn�t be holding it off for that
one day out of the year. Sometimes you just need to surprise your
partner with something romantic to show them you still care.
Now,
a lot of guys may think that this means they are going to have to
make reservations at some fancy restaurant with candles and real
table cloths. While that would be a show of romance, you don�t need
to bother with all of that. Most women want you to be romantic in
subtle ways, and that is a good thing because it can actually save
you a lot of money. Why do you need the fancy restaurant when you
have a nice backyard with a table that you can put candles on? You
see how that works?
You
have to think about the atmosphere of the area that you are planning
to be romantic in. If the atmosphere is romantic, then you could
probably walk out in clown shoes and a lamp shade on your head and
they wouldn�t mind at all. If you are going to cook dinner for your
partner, then why not kick on the grill and make some steaks? Don�t
go for the overly man sized ones, either; keep it petite like filets
mignon instead and make a salad to go with it. You already have the
candles and now you have the food, too.
A
little bit of soft music can go a long way into making the atmosphere
romantic, but it shouldn�t be anything played off the radio.
Imagine holding hands and staring into each other�s eyes as the
music fades out and on comes that loud car salesman yelling about how
crazy he is for selling everything at half price. That�s not so
romantic when you think it through. Find some songs that she really
likes and put them in your mp3 player or disk. You should also toss
in a couple that the two of you can dance to as well.
Dancing
is one of those romantic things that your partner would love for you
to do from time to time and, if you are doing all of this in your
backyard, then you won't have to worry about the fact that everyone
is staring at you on the dance floor; no one but the two of you are
there. You can hold each other and sway to the music and that is
extremely romantic. Of course, you should plan all of this for when
she gets home from work. Even draw up a bath for her so that she can
relax before she gets her moonlight dinner on the promenade. It can
be the perfect evening.
By Max Taylor